Some time ago, I decided to write
down the numerous cases that I dealt with throughout the years.
In order to do so, I asked the people
who I interact with most often, the ones who at some point interacted with me
as patients, to write down some thoughts about an issue that I helped or guided
them to resolve. I thought I will synthesize these chapters and will give them
the form of a book.
For me it is very CLEAR that what we
feel, BUT also what we transmit to our physical body, will influence its
existence. That what we SAY with our words to our body changes morphological
and physiological structures. That means changes happen within the information
found at a DNA level.
Weeell, but let s see WHICH
feelings/ideas/words are the ones that can do such a thing!
When I started my one to one therapy
sessions, I prayed for the people that I come into contact with as a
counselor/therapist to become my friends. I prayed for our relationship to not
be limited by a classic patient – therapist relationship.
You know what they say, „be careful
what you wish for, it may actually come true”, and so did my prayer turn into
reality. And it IS a beautiful friendship with each and one of them. No matter
age, gender or residence.
Today I will present to you two cases
of two young women. A mother of two (A.C.), age 30 and a young adult (A.M.),
age 27. To keep my message accurate, I will post their exact words regarding
the situation.
A.C.
(30) “I have to let you know that I’ve been thinking a lot about what you
said to me. The thing that came to my mind is very important, in my opinion.
The time after Stephen was born, when
I was having irregular menstrual bleeds and you taught me to GIVE THANKS TO MY
UTERUS.
Also TO ASK FOR ITS FORGIVENES for
tormenting it with a surgical procedure.
And to THANK it for being my baby’s
house. And to say I LOVE YOU to it.
After
I did all this, my problem had resolved.
I believe this is very important
after birth. That is because I saw how after giving birth to Michael, I did all
you told me and I recovered quicker. I felt better and in a shorter time. And
the postpartum period passed with ease.”
We are so used to our body to keep on
working, even if you take good care of it or not, and it never crosses our
minds that it REQUIRES GRATTITUDE for its perfection. To make an analogy with
something closer to all of us, let’s think about all the couples where one of
the partners – most of the time, the woman – will take over all of the family
responsibilities. This happens when it comes to her partner, her children, the
house, parents/friends and all other aspects. But, due to the fact that she
does these things CONSTANTLY, her partner takes it all for granted and doesn’t
understand why he would be required to appreciate, express gratitude or
encouragement. And he becomes disgruntled and bewildered when, FINALLY, his
partner decides to leave him and their home. It’s true though that most of the
time, she will wait for the kids to be grown up before leaving.
The same thing happens with our body.
When we keep on ignoring it, “pushing” it to work without paying any attention
to it, without taking into account its needs or acknowledging its signals, at a
certain point it … lets us down. It breaks down. It gets sick.
The second case.......will follow
Expect to see you again in Love’s
Realm,
Saphires7
